The Bed of Procrustes
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Aphorisms require us to change our reading habits and approach them in small doses; each one of them is a complete unit, a complete narrative dissociated from others
Here go some of those aphorisms that I liked…
- For company, you often prefer those who find you interesting over those you find interesting
- The best revenge on a liar is to convince him that you believe what he said
- You remember emails you sent that were not answered better than emails that you did not answer
- To be completely cured of newspapers, spend a year reading the previous week’s newspapers
- You can tell how uninteresting a person is by asking him whom he finds interesting
- It is a good practice to always apologize, except when you have done something wrong
- Rumors are only valuable when they are denied
- Over the long term, you are more likely to fool yourself than others
- There are two types of people: those who try to win and those who try to win arguments. They are never the same
- I suspect that they put Socrates to death because there is something terribly unattractive, alienating, and nonhuman in thinking with too much clarity
- If your anger decreases with time, you did injustice; if it increases, you suffered injustice
- Economics cannot digest the idea that the collective (and the aggregate) are disproportionately less predictable than individuals
- When we want to do something while unconsciously certain to fail, we seek advice so we can blame someone else for the failure
- Hatred is much harder to fake than love. You hear of fake love; never of fake hate
- Wisdom in the young is as unattractive as frivolity in the elderly
- It is a very recent disease to mistake the unobserved for the nonexistent; but some are plagued with the worse disease of mistaking the unobserved for the unobservable
- You can replace lies with truth; but myth is only displaced with a narrative
- Someone who says “I am busy” is either declaring incompetence (and lack of control of his life) or trying to get rid of you
- For most, success is the harmful passage from the camp of the hating to the camp of the hated
- Modernity: we created youth without heroism, age without wisdom, and life without grandeur
- People focus on role models; it is more effective to find antimodels—people you don’t want to resemble when you grow up
- People usually apologize so they can do it again
- The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary
- Writing is the art of repeating oneself without anyone noticing
- A good maxim allows you to have the last word without even starting a conversation
- It is much less dangerous to think like a man of action than to act like a man of thought
- We unwittingly amplify commonalities with friends, dissimilarities with strangers, and contrasts with enemies
- Corollary to Moore’s Law: every ten years, collective wisdom degrades by half
- What made medicine fool people for so long was that its successes were prominently displayed and its mistakes (literally) buried
- The sucker’s trap is when you focus on what you know and what others don’t know, rather than the reverse
- If you want to annoy a poet, explain his poetry
- If you lie to me, keep lying; don’t hurt me by suddenly telling the truth
- You may outlive your strength, never your wisdom
- They think that intelligence is about noticing things that are relevant (detecting patterns); in a complex world, intelligence consists in ignoring things that are irrelevant (avoiding false patterns)
- A mathematician starts with a problem and creates a solution; a consultant starts by offering a “solution” and creates a problem
- You know you have influence when people start noticing your absence more than the presence of others
- Some reticent people use silence to conceal their intelligence; but most do so to hide the lack of it
- When someone starts a sentence with “simply,” you should expect to hear something very complicated
Every failure of what we call “wisdom” can be reduced to a Procrustean bed situation!